Sunday, 17 June 2018

MANDELA: MY PRISONER, MY FRIEND


This year, the centenary of Nelson Mandela's birth, has seen a flurry of publications, documentaries, reminiscences and talks on the great man. Everyone, it seems, was Mandela's closest friend, intimate confidante and personal advisor. Pretenders most of them, but one who is the real thing is Christo Brand who at the age of 18 became Madiba's prison warden on Robben Island. Over the rest of Mandela's life, including his transfer to the mainland, release from jail, President of South Africa and then, finally as a pensioner, Christo remained at Mandela's side, initially as his guard and over time, his extraordinarily close friend.

Christo's story is told in his recently-released book, Mandela, My Prisoner, My Friend. He also tells his story in person at functions such as the breakfast the UK ODs held in the House of Lords on Friday 15th June, hosted by Lord St John of Bletso (Anthony St John (G, 1974)).

Before breakfast, Anthony led ODs on an intriguing and captivating tour of the House of Lords giving us access to rooms and secrets not usually accessible to the general public.

After the tour, we sat down to breakfast in the Attlee Room. There Anthony welcomed everyone in his customary erudite and witty style. In particular, he welcomed Andreas Payne (an Old Haileyburian and parliamentary assistant to the Chancellor, Philip Hammond) and Clive During, an Old RBHS. Anthony outlined the importance of understanding and supporting the transformation in South Africa which now with a new President, has taken on greater focus and urgency and, dare we expect it, increased accountability and governance.

Anthony also welcomed Simon Peile (F, 1979) Chairman of the Bishops College Council who was in London for the week. Simon outlined the purpose of his trip - setting in motion the succession process for the new Bishops Principal and meeting with British headmasters and school governors of the top schools in the country.

Andrew Russell (G, 1981) then introduced Christo who told us his story.

Christo Brand
And what a story it is. From his humble upbringing in the Cape, to becoming a guard in the South African Prison Services and, at the age of eighteen, being posted to Robben Island where he was assigned as Mandela's warden. He described his first encounter with Madiba - "not the tattooed and dangerous gangster he had expected but an educated and highly civilised old man" - and how his relationships with him developed and became ever closer. He talked about the encouragement Mandela gave him to study, how he learnt the true meaning of respect and the injustices of the apartheid system. And then, after imprisonment, how as the State President, Mandela and Christo maintained and grew their relationship until Mandela's death in December 2013 and Christo's invitation by the family to attend his funeral.

It is a story of deep humanity. Over all this time, Christo has never deviated from his belief in the goodness of humankind and how important it is to regard people with an open mind and not simply accept the prevailing dogma. Such a philosophy was not in those days without huge personal risk but Christo's appreciation of Mandela's essential virtuousness resulted in a rich and unique relationship.

And ODs were riveted.

Our thanks to Christo for sharing his story with us. And to Anthony St John for generously hosting us in the House of Lords.

A list of guests is posted at the end of this blog


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Anthony St John
Pre-breakfast tour of the House of Lords
Not many photos are allowed in the House of Lords, but with such a distinguished group, an exception was made

Breakfast:


In the distance, Denis and Tilly Christie; in the foreground the back of Miles Maskell's head and then from left, Maida Shivik, Caelim Parkes, Nick Heesom, and Diana and Peter Arthur
Simon Peile, Andrew Russell, David Jordan, Adrian Bottega (partly obscured), Thomas Withington and Andreas Payne (Old Haileyburian)
Andrew Russell introducing Christo Brand
Andreas Payne and Thomas Withington
Niall Brown, Clive During (Old RBHS) and James During
Maida Shivik, Caelim Parkes, Nick Heesom, Diana Arthur, Peter Arthur, Peter Mitchell, Emma Mitchell and front right, Pat Baldwin
Thomas Withington, Adrian Bottega, David Jordan and Chris Santilhano
Nick Heesom, Diana and Peter Arthur, Peter and Emma Mitchell
Christo Brand and Tilly Christie
Richie Ryall and Peter Mitchell
Andrew Russell, Caelim Parkes and Emma Mitchell
Chris Santilhano, Christo Brand and Nick Heesom
Pat Baldwin, Miles Maskell, Robbie Weich, The Arthurs and Christo Brand
Diana and Peter Arthur, Greg and Pat Baldwin and David Jordan

Fiona Hollands-Hurst, Christo and Estelle Brand and Simon Peile
Christo Brand, Estelle Brand and Simon Peile
Nick Heesom
Robbie Weich and Christo Brand

The Palace of Westminster (photos: Robbie Weich)

The Guest list:

Tuesday, 12 June 2018

2018 ODs v OLD TONBRIDGIANS (OTs) GOLF TOURNAMENT

This, the fourth of our annual matches against the OTs proved as successful as our outing last year - we lost. Played on Saturday 9th June on the Old Course at the fabulous RAC in Surrey, we enjoyed not only wonderful friendship and some good games (and, later a Springbok rugby victory) but near perfect weather.


The imposing RAC Club House
It's a strange OD phenomenon that we seem to peak at the warm-up and then take 18 holes to slowly unravel. But despite that, or perhaps because of it, our games against the OTs are competitive and fun. Through David Walsh, great friend to Bishops and the ODU, we have established a wonderful relationship with the OT Golf Society and we look forward to many more years of friendly rivalry when, once in a while, we will win.

That said, Doug Mallett (M, 2007) has not in the four years of this tournament lost a match, which is a pretty remarkable accomplishment, given his aggressive approach to rehydration at the halfway house.

Alex Price (M, 2008) is the OD captain, convenor and  disciplinarian. He works tirelessly to put the team together, wake them up on the match morning and motivate them through the testing moments. Greg Baldwin (O, 1975) battled with a dodgy arm and Dave Riches (K, 1996) helped him push through the pain barrier - a true team. Zandy Macdonald (F, 2007) put himself through a warm-up routine which would have made a Russian gymnast wince while Nick Dowdall (G, 2008), applied his doctoral studies in psychology to get the team mindset into match condition. Looking every inch the professional, Seb Golding (F, 2011) played text-book strokes alongside Eric Allan (S, 2010) who watched in admiration and executed one or two awe-inspiring shots of his own.

So 1-3 down, but with enthusiasm and motivation in spades, expect next year's result to be a wholly different. Before then, though, we take on the Old Haileyburians in August.


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The ODs
Back: Greg Baldwin, Dave Riches, Alex price, Eric Allan and Seb Golding
Front: Nick Dowdall, Doug Mallett and Zandy Macdonald
The OTs: James Mitchell, Martin Colvill, David Walsh, Ed Dickinson, Henry Sanderson, Robin Berkeley, Richard Dalzell and Robert Butlin

Nick Dowdall and Zandy Macdonald discussing game strategy over a breakfast sandwich
Getting kitted out in the ODU strip
Eric Allan and Seb Golding
A supremely confident Greg Baldwin
Zandy Macdonald taking himself through an agonising stretch routine setting himself up for a near-perfect back nine (much later)
Seb Golding thinking it through
Zandy Macdonald and Doug Mallett squaring up with Henry Sanderson and Ed Dickinson (obscured)
Richard Dalzell and Robin Berkeley starting as they mean to finish
Alex Price and Nick Dowdall


Alex Price
Ed Dickinson and Henry Sanderson (OTs)
Robin Berkely and Richard Dalzell (OTs) and Eric Allan and Seb Golding
Dave Riches, Martin Colvill and David Walsh (OTs) and Greg Baldwin
Doug Mallett
Zandy Macdonald (those exercises again)
David Walsh (OT) - not a position you want to be driving from

Greg Baldwin and David Walsh (OT)
Alex Price and Nick Dowdall
Henry Sanderson (OT), Doug Mallett, Ed Dickinson (OT) and Zandy Macdonald
James Mitchell and Robert Butlin (OTs) and Alex Price and Nick Dowdall
David Walsh (OT) and Dave Riches
Post-match call-in: Doug Mallett
SA v England: Dave Riches, Seb Golding and Eric Allan
Alex Price, Richard Dalzell (OT), Eric Allan and Seb Golding
Ed Dickinson and David Walsh (OTs); Dave Riches and Greg Baldwin
Zandy Macdonald, Nick Dowdall and Alex price
Zandy Macdonald and Doug Mallett